Sunday, December 15, 2013

After the first attempt, my mom tried two more times, before giving up... 

Her second try was reserved for my middle school math teacher...


This particular math teacher was a nun at the Catholic school I attended (from 1st to 8th grade). This sweet nun just told her to be grateful I believed in Heavenly Father and was not doing anything against the Commandments. I kept in touch with this nun until her passing. Every time I went home, I visited with her and we would discuss our beliefs. To this day, I miss visiting with her. 

Next, she tried to convince a young man I had a crush on to tell me to leave the church. I have to sort of laugh at this one as this young man was a member of the church as well. I guess, somehow, she thought that he might see the errors or our ways and persuade me to leave behind this new religion I had found.

In the end, given that her efforts did not work, she just decided to let me be. She would comment to me, once in a while, about my decision; however, she no longer tried to dissuade me from being a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. She even supported my children during their summer visits, or the year long visit my daughter had with them.

I do have goodly parents and I love them dearly. I am grateful for their love and their support. They truly are the best non member parents one could ever ask for.

Monday, December 9, 2013

Sorry I am a day late with the next part of my conversion story. We had a Christmas Devotional at church and, by the time I got back home, my mind was too tired to try to put words in writing.

However, here it is now....

My mom thought that my "switching" religions was just going to be something short lived. When she realized that I was in for the long haul, she tried several things to convince me to change back.

She loved me and she thought that the decision I made was not to my benefit. She had not received the missionary discussions and, therefore, she did not know what prompted me to change. She thought it was just something I had decided to do for fun.

The first thing she tried to do was to have one of my aunts convince me to switch back. My aunt is a 100% practicing Catholic and she also holds a special place in my heart. When she did not receive support from my aunt, she turned to one of the math teachers I had in middle school.

Next Sunday, you will read about her other attempts.

For now, I want you to know that I love my mom for all she has done for me. She tried to get me out of the church because she lacked the knowledge. However, this does not change the fact that she raised me to be the best person I could be and that she has made sacrifices that I might have the best life possible she and my dad could provide for me. And for this, I am grateful to her and my dad.

I think I have shared this before, but I want to share again that I can honestly say, like Nephi of old, that I was born of goodly parents. I love talking to them every weekend. Although miles apart, they are constantly in my heart and I thank Heavenly Father for them.




Sunday, December 1, 2013

After the baptism, I went home and I was so radiant that my mom asked me what was going on. I shared with her that I had been baptized. Her words were, "Of course you have been baptized. We baptized you when your were a few days old."

It is then that I explained to her that I had joined the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. She knew I had been meeting with the missionaries but my baptism came to her as a total shock. She was raised Catholic and I had been raised Catholic. Although she was not attending Mass regularly, I attended more than she did. She could not understand why I had changed and she felt betrayed.

She asked questions and tried to read things on her own to try to understand. However, every time I would try to explain something to her, even things that she asked about, she would stop me and say, "I don't want to hear anymore or you are going to convince me."


Sunday, November 24, 2013

It was April 14, 1982 when I entered the waters of baptism. Not many people were present, as it was in the middle of the week and in the afternoon; it was a Wednesday, I believe.

I was very happy.

After the baptism, performed by a member of the church who was a Priest in the Aaronic Priesthood, I received the gift of the Holy Ghost and was confirmed a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints by another member of the church who held the Melchizedek Priesthood.

I was on cloud nine.

What did being baptize mean to me? It meant, that all I had done in the past had been forgiven and washed away. I was going to start from scratch and, from that moment on, I had taken upon me the name of my Savior, Jesus the Christ, and promised that I would follow in His footsteps.


Sunday, November 17, 2013

More questions were answered in following meetings. Each meeting left me in awe at how much Heavenly Father loved me and wanted me to be happy.

Soon enough, I no longer wanted to ask questions to trip them... I was now asking questions because I seriously wanted to know more and feel of their love and His love for me.

Through their teachings of our Savior, I felt I wanted to be more like Him. 

I wanted to be the kind of daughter Heavenly Father would be proud of. I knew He would love me no matter the choices I made, but I wanted Him to be happy about the way I was living.

I decided I was going to become a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.


Sunday, November 10, 2013

The day came for me to meet with the sister missionaries again.
I asked them the questions that had been bothering me and, to my surprise, they had answers for them, and they made sense.

I was impressed, but at the same time I was still kind of leery and decided I was going to find questions to ask with the purpose of tripping them up. Certainly, there must have been things they did not know and had the answer to!

I think I had taken it as a challenge to aggravate them with my questions and I wonder what they thought of me. Nonetheless, they always had a smile on their faces and never once were they belligerent or made me feel I was not worth of an answer or their time.

The first question I had came about as I was reading the Book of Mormon, and Nephi was ordered to kill Laban. I thought, "Wait a second! we have been given the commandment thou shall not kill and here he is ordered to kill...what is going on?"

The two missionaries not only reminded me of Noah and the Flood, but also asked me to read a few verses down from where I had stopped and, sure enough, the explanation was there. "... It is better that one man should perish than that a nation should dwindle and perish in unbelief."

Even the Bible explains this concept. Check out John 11:50: "“And you do not consider that is profitable for us that one man should die instead of the nation, and not that the whole nation perish."

With this question now answered, I moved on to the next one...


Sunday, November 3, 2013

The day came for me to meet with the two sister missionaries (Sorella Dotti e Sorella Anastasio).

It was their "P" day (Preparation day: a day set aside for the missionaries to do their laundry, their grocery shopping, cleaning, and writing letters to family and friends)...

Those two young ladies gave up part of their day to come and see me, as that was the only time I could meet. Although disappointed that they were not dashing young men, I respected and appreciated the fact that they made a sacrifice to come and see me.

One of my sister missionaries (now married and living in Arizona) reminded me that the first thing I said to them was, "I am not going to join this church unless I know it is true."

I remember that statement. The reason behind it was that I did not want to join the church and then not attend because I had problems with what they were teaching (like it had happened with the Catholic church).

They began the lessons by teaching me about Joseph Smith and the First Vision.
They gave me a copy of the Book of Mormon to read and set up another appointment.

The first thing I did, once I got back home, was to read in the encyclopedia about the Mormons. I felt like I had opened a can of worms! So many questions started swirling in my head, but only one was weighing heavily on me. I could not wait to meet with them again and ask about that particular issue!